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S
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Presuppositions

  1. Your body and your mind will reflect your relationships
  2. Nobody dies - only bodies
  3. There's no such thing as a family secret
  4. Children will try to complete what their parent's start

The experience of Integrity or Soul during our Systemic Coaching corresponds with descriptions from many spiritual traditions. Many people attracted to our work want to directly experience the Sense of Life or Integrity that is the Soul of Soulwork...

  1. You can only consider what you can comprehend
  2. Soul cannot be comprehended - Soul can be experienced
  3. Soul communicates through behavior
  4. Soul communicates through clarity, courage, focus ... and suffering


Definitions

  1. Soul is connectedness: from your connectedness comes consciousness
  2. Soul is consciousness: from your consciousness you focus experience
  3. Soul is experience: from your experience you choose how to act
  4. Soul is reality: from your reality, you express your sense of life


Identity

Your life is your eternal springtime, as consciousness blossoms into connectedness. Soul experience is your summer of inspiration.

  1. Your harvest is your sense of life - your happiness
  2. Your every action expresses your identity as you create your reality
  3. Your physical, emotional and intellectual appetites may fade in your experience of integrity
  4. You can transcend consciousness and experience integrity


Beliefs

Beliefs are generalizations: your verbalized summaries of experience by which you attempt to communicate abstractions.

  1. You create beliefs based on your experiences; and you accept beliefs to strengthen your relationships
  2. You perceive your external reality through your beliefs. You will continually prove yourself right
  3. If you examine your beliefs, you can discover a stable experience of self - of YOU-ness - that transcends beliefs
  4. Reality is what's left when you stop believing in it


Experiences

Use your senses to experience - to observe, to listen, to smell, to touch, to feel and to intuit.

  1. Experience deeply, express intently and listen heartfully
  2. Listen to words, observe your images, and let them go
  3. We can move past that which we observe, into Soul
  4. Everything is our experience of reality


Feel

  1. Feel the sounds around you as the pulse of your life
  2. Feel the abundant life around you - and including you
  3. Feel your rhythms of creation, your growth, your expanding life energy
  4. Stop your thoughts and feel the wind, the rain, the sun, the earth



Communication

  1. You cannot not communicate
  2. Express your intent and motivation clearly
  3. Share your experience with words and actions
  4. Accept and ponder your revelations before sharing them


Relationships

Consider the potential meanings and purposes of each relationship. Observe your attachments to physical relationships and convert those attachments to conscious interactions.

  1. Physical, emotional and intellectual actions have spiritual consequences
  2. Every relationship will mirror what you experience in yourself
  3. Every relationship can be a profound spiritual experience
  4. How are you using or abusing physical bodies?


Live Consciously

Conscious living applies knowledge and emotions with congruent action.

  1. Honor your life, and other lives, by fulfilling your life purpose
  2. Work together to bring harmony, restore balance and build peace
  3. Congruence reflects life experiences, decisions and consequences


Unconscious Living - Robot Habits

Your habits are your patterns of attachment. Study your routines. Observe your responses, feelings and actions. Recognize your habits as you interact with the world. If you respond only in the ways you know how to respond - you cannot recognize and transcend your habits.

  1. Observe robotic expectations and beliefs in yourself and others
  2. Observe the consequences of thoughtless, robot habits
  3. Move from habit to purpose by asking "What increases my lasting happiness?"


Integrity

  1. Your actions always reflect your integrity
  2. Separation exists only in your mind
  3. Each moment connects the infinite with the temporal
  4. Your expectations, beliefs, judgments and attachments can block integrity


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1. Where are you now? Assess relationship bonds and entanglements Systems 1
2. What are your life goals?  Identify your life goals ... and what blocks you Systems 2
3. How to reach your goals?  Use your conscious and unconscious resources Systems 3
4. What stops you?  Dissolve abuse and trauma to rebuild motivation Systems 4
5. What else stops you? Change your limiting beliefs to end dependence Systems 5
6. What else stops you? Resolve identity loss to recover qualities and skills Systems 6
7. What else stops you? Heal mentor damage and find quality mentorship Systems 7
8. What about your partnership? Build happy partnership (or separate peacefully) Systems 8
9. What about your children? We coach parents to resolve family problems Systems 9
10. What about your success? We coach team leaders and teams ... together Systems 10
11. What about your community? We coach community leaders and communities Systems 11
12. What about complex goals? Specialty coaching & training for unusual goals Specialty

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