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Most individual coaching is to increase individual happiness and reduce individual suffering. Our systemic coaching increases systemic success - we increase the adaptability and survival potential of human relationship systems. Contact us.
Martyn Carruthers

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Frequently Asked Questions about Soulwork Systemic Solutions

  1. Does Systemic Solutions differ from therapy or consulting?

  2. What does Systemic Solutions offer ME?
  3. What happens during Soulwork private sessions?
  4. Can Systemic Solutions help me personally?
  5. Can Soulwork help my relationships?
  6. Can Soulwork help my career?
  7. Can Soulwork help my organization?
  8. How can I get private sessions?
  9. Can I get professional systemic coach training?
  10. Where did Systemic Solutions come from?
  11. What about getting training?
  12. What can I do next?

Systems Coaching & Professional Training FAQ

Most individual coaching is to increase individual happiness and reduce individual suffering. Most systemic coaching is to increase the adaptability and survival potential of human systems such as families and teams. We usually embed individual coaching within systemic coaching.


1. Does Systemic Solutions differ from therapy & consulting?

Most therapists review your past and offer advice about your problems. We coach you to explore what you want and how to get it. Systemic Solutions focuses on your concrete goals and on their long term consequences. Systemic Solutions is both preventative and remedial.

We are Stretches - not Shrinks! We can help you control your present and shape your future. Take control of your happiness and your suffering, your health and your sickness, reflect your lifestyle and your relationship habits.

Consultants use their experience to give you advice about specific problems. They are expected to analyze problems and supply solutions. They may implement proposals in direct intervention.

Systemic Solutions avoids dissociation techniques and helps you focus on life goals. We can coach you to dissolve whatever blocks you from your success, your happiness and your chosen goals.


2. What does Systemic Solutions offer ME?

Systemic Solutions offers reorientation for individuals, partners, teams and families.

  • Clarify your relationships and resolve guilt

  • Define your success and dissolve conflicts

  • Find integrity and end symptoms of identity loss

  • Dissolve or control mental and relationship diseases

  • Transform your limiting beliefs into freedom

  • Transform your abuse and trauma into motivation

  • Build lifelong inspiration into your sense of life

We can coach you to reach your goals, while exploring your motivation, your inspiration and the consequences of your decisions. Do you want to learn this for pleasure, to enhance your knowledge and careers, or do you want to add professional coaching to your credentials?

Systemic coaching is not hypnosis, psychoanalysis, new age nor NLP. We do not offer suggestions, advice, energy work or programming! Instead we help you sort out your goals and your entangled relationships, and we support you to access and use your personal genius.


3. What happens during Systemic Coaching?

We would normally arrange a private meeting with you and we may offer to coach you on some topics by telephone. A personal session typically lasts about two hours, and many people achieve significant results in a few sessions.

You can bring one of us to you to coach couples, families, teams or people who cannot travel. We may work with you to arrange a workshop to cover expenses.

Explore your goals, their consequences and any hesitations that you may have about your goals. We help you use your objections to enrich and define your goals. (Exploring life goals often expose current or potential partnership issues, which can be resolved during systemic couple coaching.)


4. Can Systemic Solutions help me personally?

Your success is limited by your relationships! If you feel that your relationships could be better, or that your life should be happier, then Systemic Solutions can help you. YOU are accountable for your actions. Happiness is reserved for people who choose to live their own lives.

Lasting success requires clear relationships and meaningful goals. Symptoms are tools for measuring life quality. Our coaching and systemic coach training is for responsible adults. We coach children with metaphors and stories.

Depression . Anxiety . Stress


5. Can Systemic Solutions help my relationships?

Your relationship success requires honesty, candor, humor and responsibility. Your family traditions, your history and your role models limit or inspire your relationship behavior! If you want to find peace and clarity as a family member, as a friend, as a team member, as a partner or as a parent, then we can help you.

We do not solve your problems. That's for social workers. Nor are we authoritative about why you have problems - that's for psychologists. Nor do we control your emotions with medication - that's for psychiatrists. Nor do we offer endless philosophy - that's for gurus. We help you solve what stops you solving your problems.

Soulwork Articles . Relationship Coaching


6. Can Systemic Solutions help my career?

Career success requires relationship skills. Regardless of your knowledge or expertise, without relationship skills you may find yourself alienated by colleagues and passed over for promotion. If your history and / or your attitude limits your professional development, systemic coaching can help you.

Are you motivated to change? Do you want to dissolve old bonds and trauma, learn new skills and find inspirational mentors? Do you want to coach other people? Email us.

Resources for executives, managers and leaders


7. Can Systemic Solutions help my organization?

Organizations may succeed despite internal chaos. CEOs, owners, founders and managers often create management and relationship structures that represent or replace their families. Does your corporate culture have similar qualities to a cult? Stress can destroy corporate and individual health.

If you and your colleagues can achieve more with improved relationship skills, then our coaching can help you use team and leadership skills, while your organization gets improved management skills.

Relationship Management and Strategic Planning


8. How can I get Systemic Solutions?

Ask us about a systemic coach in your area or ethnic background. Our graduates include medical doctors, lawyers, psychologists, artists, teachers, wilderness trainers, business people and other professionals from many countries. Or, consider working with us as an organizer.

Our systemic solutions can explore your needs and your resources. We may offer a free telephone session so that you can explore the first step of our work without expense or risk. Mention your city, situation and goals, and we will suggest a coach.

Systemic Coaching


9. Can I become a Soulwork Coach?

Are you friendly and mature? Your attitude is more important than your education! Do you finish what you start? Are you determined, committed, and willing to learn? Are you friendly and co-operative? Are you self-controlled - can you "stay adult" in stressful situations?

We strive to make each class a cross-cultural experience, to enrich all our perceptions with the diversity of shared experiences.

Some successful coaches have no academic qualifications while others have advanced university credentials. All have a talent for friendly, supportive communication. If you are more interested in people than in things, you are ready. If you want to offer an essential community service, you are nearly here.

Transcripts: Recover Lost Resources ... Dissolve Complex Conflict


10. Where did Systemic Solutions start?

Martyn Carruthers began developing this systemic methodology for change in 1988, integrating his background in emergency management and adult education with accelerated learning, systemic psychology, consulting and expert modeling. Now, in 2008, Martyn continues to develop systemic skills for the less common facets of human relationships.

For more on the origin of Martyn's systemic solutions, see Soulwork Origins


11. How long is systemic coach training?

Our coach training is in 5-day segments (6-day if translation needed). Each segment includes information and demonstrations that can be used with the information from other segments, or as stand-alone specialty workshops. We provide complete training in systemic coaching.

Systemic Coach Training:


12. What can I do next?

Contact us if you want to expand your horizons or start a rewarding career. You can benefit from our professional training programs and years of experience, and you can improve your skills with on-going training and networking. Your happiness and your success will always reflect your relationship skills.

Plagiarism is theft. Copyright © 2004-2012 Martyn Carruthers All rights reserved


 

 
 

 

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1. Where are you now? Assess fixations, bonds and enmeshments Systems 1
2. What do you want?  Define life goals ... and blocks to success Systems 2
3. Do you have a plan?  Use conscious and unconscious resources Systems 3
4. Do your emotions limit you?  Dissolve abuse, trauma and mentor damage Systems 4
5. Do your beliefs block you? Change limiting beliefs and end dependence Systems 5
6. Do you feel empty? Resolve identity loss to recover lost qualities Systems 6
7. Is your partner happy? Build healthy partnership (or separate peacefully) Systems 7
8. Are your children happy? Parents can resolve family problems Systems 8
9. Do you want team success? Develop team leaders and top teams together Systems 9
10. Do you want community? Coach community leaders and communities Systems 10
**   Do you have unusual goals? Specialty coaching & training Specialty

Plagiarism is theft. Copyright © Martyn Carruthers 1996-2012 All rights reserved. Soulwork Systemic Coaching was primarily developed by Martyn Carruthers
to help people dissolve emotional blocks, improve relationships and achieve goals. These concepts and strategies are for general knowledge only. Consult a physician about medical conditions and before changing medical treatment. Don't steal intellectual property ... ask for permission to post, publish or teach this work.