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Systemic Family Coaching
Changing Families © Martyn Carruthers

Online Coaching & Mentorship for Families


We offer coaching and training on improving family relationships, family constellations
and resolving family problems.

We coach people to create healthier and happier homes. We do this by coaching people to improve communication, solve emotional problems and cope with family situations such as births, illnesses, marriages and deaths.

We perceive families as living systems of people rather than as groups of individuals. We use systems theories to evaluate family relationships in terms of responsibilities. We help families solve problems by changing how the families work rather than trying to fix a specific member.

Families who do not resolve their problematic traditions or habits can expect these behaviors and consequences to be duplicated by their children and grandchildren. We sometimes call this family karma ...

Systemic Family Coaching

Your family must cope with predictable problems. Premature deaths, illnesses, missing family members, accidents or other injustices will happen. These events do not only impact the daily life of family members, if handled poorly they can upset family harmony for generations.

Families are not only people - families include feelings, beliefs, values and goals. Family behavior and cooperation are strongly affected by their perceptions of behaviors, beliefs, values and justice.

The exclusion of family members may not only hurt and humiliate those being rejected - other family members, perhaps in a subsequent generation, may try to bring back the missing family members, either by adoption or marriage, or by identification - by expressing the emotions and feelings of the missing members.

We help people explore how unjust events affect their health, susceptibility to disease, and patterns of deaths, accidents or loss may be repeated in each generation. Our profound perspective offers many opportunities for people to understand themselves as well as their relationships.

You can help prevent the unpleasant events and tragedies of your ancestors being repeated by your children - and your grandchildren. You can choose to end and decide to prevent cross-generational family enmeshment and fixations. We can show you how ...

Medical Doctor's Perspective . Identifications
 

Assess Common Interests and Identify Differences

Our coaching is not only for people with problems - it is for adults who are motivated for more or better. Most human behavior is influenced and maintained by relationships - by the way people interact.

We help individual people or whole families to explore and find ways to change how they behave in families and how families behave in communities. Our optimistic and dynamic coaching can help you and your family cope with a changing world.

  • Individual Coaching - skills for success, health and happiness.
  • Couple Coaching: learn skills and dissolve emotional blocks for happy partnership.
  • Family Coaching: skills for parents - child-raising, family habits, learning disabilities, etc
  • Corporate Coaching skills for managers and negotiations; Team Leadership coaching.
  • Community Coaching and Trainer Training are also available.

Partnership . Predictable Partnership . Evaluating Partnership

Most remedial approaches deal only with symptoms, and not with systemic roots. Following such interventions, the system renews the symptom or creates another, continuing to express the dysfunction. People can be ill from the same illness repetitively, or from successive similar diseases. Systemic coaching resolves the fundamental imbalance; until the symptom spontaneously disappears. Rooted in relationships are: physical illnesses, compulsive-addictive behavior, mental blocks and repetitive life crises. Ana Pejcinova, PhD

We cannot help everybody. Our coaching may be too difficult for family members with psychological disorders, or for children and adolescents who suffer from their parents' communication habits. Families that are generally unsuitable for our family coaching include:

  1. families with members who cannot or will not participate

  2. families with members who risk an emotional or psychological crisis

  3. families whose cultural or religious values are opposed to outside counseling

  4. families in which a parent has been diagnosed with a major personality disorder

Some of our Family Coaching Resources

Learning Disabilities Emotional Incest

Family Spirit

Children of Divorce Post-Abortion Coaching

Dependencies

Parental Alienation

Ending Addictions

Stress Disorders

Mother-Son Fixations

Father-Daughter Enmeshment

Fixed Toxic Beliefs

 Enjoying Partnership

Evaluating Partnership

Predictable Partnership



Family Coaching

Questions we often ask about families:

  1. How close are your family members now?
  2. What would empower all family members?
  3. What could stop you being happy together?
  4. What do you want your family to do together?
  5. How do you want to improve family happiness?

Exploring and answering these questions allows you and your family to re-evaluate the situation. These questions may seem simple ... yet your full answers to these questions will likely be profound.

If one partner wants to change the other partner's perspectives, habits, beliefs or values - our coaching can help the partners integrate both of their goals, while learning how to exist independent of external manipulation or coercion. Partners can reach their goals - together.

We help people resolve emotions and family chaos ... we help people find solutions for emotional blocks and relationship problems.

Systemic Coach Training . Home-Study

'The family system is an idea that may have taken us all off track. It is far better to do away with the concept of the family system to which the treating professional is as active a contributor as anyone else. We would then not say the system creates the problem, but that the problem creates the system. In other words, a problem does not exist independently of the "observing systems" that are reciprocally and collectively defining the problem.'

Boscolo et al,1987


Changing Families

The interpretation of Soulwork family maps and constellations requires a wealth of knowledge about relationship dynamics and considerable experience, especially with partial personalities and transferences. Training tales a few weeks and proficiency can be gained within a few months.
Expertise demands quality training and massive experience.

We help families change unwanted family traditions and habits. As most family problems appear to be aspects of family relationships, we don't blame anybody. We create opportunities for shared responsibility. We help members develop self-esteem and responsibility, and healthy relationship skills.

How we promote family health:

  • Manage unpleasant emotions
  • Dissolve toxic relationship bonds
  • Provide or find healthy role models
  • Listen, respect and clarify communications
  • Build acceptance, trust, empathy and compassion
  • Respond appropriately to perceptions and feedback
  • Dissolve conflicts and find family integrity (family spirit)

Members of families, teams, organizations and communities are connected with each other, both with those present and those who have left. The healing effects of systemic coaching continue to unfold as you honor those who have belonged to your family or team, respecting their fates and their burdens.

We help people dissolve emotional blocks and improve relationships. We offer online coaching, evaluation and feedback to motivated adults. The effects are immediate - and unfold over generations.

Online Coaching & Mentorship

Plagiarism is theft. Copyright © Martyn Carruthers 2003-2012 All rights reserved


Soulwork systemic coaching in America & Hawaii

 

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Systemic Coaching & Coach Training

Good Questions

Good Answers

Good Training

1. Where are you now? Assess your fixations, bonds and enmeshments Systems 1
2. What do you want?  Define your life goals ... and your blocks to success Systems 2
3. Do you have the resources?  Find your hidden resources by dreaming together Systems 3
4. Do your emotions block you?  Dissolve abuse, trauma and mentor damage Systems 4
5. Do your beliefs limit you? Change your limiting beliefs and end dependence Systems 5
6. Do you feel empty? Resolve identity loss to recover lost or hidden qualities Systems 6
7. Is your partner happy? Build healthy partnership (or separate peacefully) Systems 7
8. Are your children happy? Parents can learn to better resolve family problems Systems 8
9. Do you want team success? Team leaders and top teams can develop together Systems 9
10. Do you enjoy community? Community leaders can coach their communities Systems 10
**   Do you have unusual goals? Specialty coaching & training Specialty

Plagiarism is theft. Copyright © Martyn Carruthers 1996-2012 All rights reserved. Soulwork Systemic Coaching was primarily developed by Martyn Carruthers
to help people dissolve emotional blocks and improve relationships to achieve their goals. These concepts and strategies are for general knowledge only. Consult a physician about medical conditions and before changing medical treatment. Don't steal intellectual property ... get permission to post, publish or teach Martyn's work.