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Systemic Solutions in America
Do you want happy partnership, healthy children & supportive friends?

Do you Want to Change Something?

We help people evaluate, change and fulfill their lives.
We only offer advice to those who ask for it - and sometimes not then.
Questions, experiences and provocation are often better than advice!

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We coach people. We incorporated many modalities to help people manage their emotions, change their beliefs, define their goals and develop spiritually. We call it Soulwork Systemic Coaching.

To survive and prosper in today's economy, most people must redefine their goals and plans. Are you ready to change your emotions and beliefs about your life? Do you want to become more self-aware and help your family by first improving yourself?

We can help you mold and shape your dreams as you define goals, create plans, make decisions and move on in your life. We help people mange their emotions, change their beliefs and improve their success.

We can help you change your current and future behavior. We do not not focus on examining your past, nor diagnose mental illnesses nor discuss medications. We can help you get what you want.

Emotional Maturity & Emotional Freedom

Many people sabotage their own lives. Are you entangled in old trauma or other people's problems?
Do you live in other people's confusion? Do you want solutions for your own life ...
or do you want to help other people? Maybe both?

While most Americans are descended from Europeans, the relationship habits and relationship problems of both continents are not the same. We find that Americans tend to have more complex relationships - and more complex relationship problems - than their European cousins.

Family roles in America often seem to be blurred by a fascination with media, multiculturalism, multiple relocations, multiple partnerships, parental alienation, emotional incest and combined families.

Much relationship coaching in America seems to specialize in helping single people find partners and in helping partners and parents solve minor problems ... in a country with the world's highest rates of divorce and family breakdown. What's missing from this picture?

We help people improve their emotional maturity as they resolve emotional issues and relationship problems - for example dissolving bonds with past partners, fixations with parents, dissolving sexual affairs and the consequences of abortion.

We consider emotions to reflect relationships, and we are not surprised that during our relationship coaching, many emotional issues seem to evaporate.

We have presented and tested our coaching and training in Europe, Asia, Africa and Australia. We adapt to different cultural and ethnic backgrounds to offer the best in brief relationship coaching.

We may use inquiry, reflection, requests and discussion to help people define their goals, and to develop strategies, relationships and action plans to achieve those goals. We help people become accountable to themselves by monitoring their progress towards their goals.

We often act as sounding boards and human mirrors for people by sharing our perspectives. We often provide specific insights and skills to empower people toward their goals.

Our Coaching & Training

It is hard to watch people suffer - especially when we have something that could really help them.

When we teach, we combine theory, demonstration, exercises and feedback. You can learn about people and success - and how to help people achieve success. Our demonstrations show you how to do this. Our exercises give you space to practice what you learn and our feedback offers you the information you need to improve your skills.

We enjoy coaching people to build healthy relationships. Healthy relationships are often characterized by acceptance, encouragement, communication, respect, solving problems quickly, talking about goals and feelings, planning together and working together to raise children, build a business or help their communities.

Attraction is not enough for lasting happiness ...
healthy relationships require goals, commitment and skills.

What have you already tried that failed? Have you already tried therapy, counseling or life coaching and all you got was mentor damage, active listening or useless advice?

You are not alone. We can help you!

Soulwork Systemic Solutions - Training Objectives

I am told that most people can easily identify with either sharks, tuna or dolphins. Sharks get energy from killing, tuna get energy from victimhood, and dolphins get energy from playful teamwork. If this simplification has a grain of truth - which would you identify with? And would you want to change?

Following successful completion of our training, participants will be able to:

1. Evaluate human systems and clarify relationship entanglements
2. Define goals, dissolve objections & plan for success
3. How to end self-criticism & inner conflict to recover integrity
4. Recover lost and missing qualities, expertise and skills
5. How to dissolve relationship bonds for healthy relationships
6. How to dissolve abuse and trauma, and rebuild motivation
7. How to end mentor damage & find inspirational mentorship
8. Coach couples and partners simultaneously
9. Coach whole families or parts of families simultaneously
10. Coach teams and develop team leaders simultaneously

Founder: Martyn Carruthers

Martyn Carruthers founded an innovative integration of emotional and relationship coaching based in part on his integration of systems thinking with traditional healing methods. Martyn is acknowledged for creating effective methods for evaluating and changing relationship systems, dissolving cross-generational entanglements and resolving unwanted relationship habits.

More people stay together bonded by unhappy fixations than bonded by love.
Poor relationships with parents and ex-partners often cause conflict, stress and ill health.
We coach people to clean up the mess and move on.

Plagiarism is theft. Copyright © Martyn Carruthers 1996-2012 All rights reserved. Soulwork Systemic Coaching was primarily developed by Martyn Carruthers
to help people dissolve emotional blocks, improve relationships and achieve goals. These concepts and strategies are for general knowledge only. Consult a physician about medical conditions and before changing medical treatment. Don't steal intellectual property ... ask for permission to post, publish or teach this work.