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Abuse
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Anxiety
Beliefs

Dependence
Depression

Eating Disorders
Emotional Maturity
Grief & Loss
Identity Loss
Inner Child

Pain Control
Passive Aggressive

Stress Relief
Trauma & Stress
Weight Loss

 

Relationships
Age Difference

Emotional Baggage
Emotional Blackmail
Entanglements
Healthy Relationships

Long-Distance Love
Love & Hate
Rejection
Yoga of Relationship

 

Couples
Affairs
Age Difference
Codependence
Couple Coaching
Cross-Cultural
Divorce
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Partnership
Premarital
Separation

Sexual Issues
Soul Mates

 

Family
Abortion
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Coaching Children
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Emotional Incest
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Parental Alienation
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Patterns in Love
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Most habits, self-sabotage and emotional issues reflect relationship disappointments. We have huge experience in resolving relationship issues ... quickly.

Are You Ready?

Have you suffered enough? Do you want relief from unpleasant emotions?
Do you want better relationships and to achieve important goals?

If you want to improve your life, please contact us.
We can listen to you carefully and answer your questions.
(We also mentor helping professionals to work with their difficult clients.)

Is This for You?  .  Prices & Costs  .  Mentorship for Therapists

Soulwork Italia  Systemic Solutions Deutschland  Soulwork Czech  Systemic Solutions Slovakia      Soulwork Croatia / Hrvatska  Soulwork Polska 

Few meetings or conversations ever inspired me, touched me, moved me
or changed me as much as our short time together.
London, England

Do you delay seeking help until you are desperate?
Do you wait until your relationship, income or health are at risk? Why not find solutions
before a challenge becomes a crisis? We can help you prevent or improve many situations.

Armchair philosophers offer simple solutions for complex problems. Prayer, positive thinking, affirmations, clearings and meditations seem full of hope and promise ... if you have no
emotional blocks limiting your happiness, and no toxic beliefs poisoning your prosperity.

Martyn, it all came down to trust. There are very few people that we would trust with our marriage. You and Kosjenka earned our trust and we never had cause to doubt it.
Without your coaching we would be divorced now.

We help people improve their lives. We help people change unwanted habits and move on. We do not solve problems for people - that's for parents and social workers. Nor are we specialists in statistics - that's psychology. We don't diagnose disease nor advocate drugs - that's medicine. We leave religions to priests, judgments to judges and philosophies to gurus. We help people change.

I never experienced better mentorship in my life. It was life changing and I recommend Martyn's coaching to anyone who is striving to improve quality of private and business life.
Stephen Werft
MA, Management Consultant / Trainer

Here are the Steps ...

1.  Do you seek coaching or therapy?  Check this table.
2
.  Is this really for you?  Answer these questions
3.  Select a coach and make appointments
4.  Pay  for  our  time  and  experience
 5.  Contact us at the agreed times
6.  Review what you learned
7.  Follow  your plan!
8. Feedback

Step 1) Do you want Coaching, Therapy or Training?

Every soul's journey needs a witness and a guide.

What you don’t know can hurt you! Often, the hardest part of changing is knowing exactly where are you now in your life, where do you want to be and how to get from here to there. Then, when you are ready to accept help, how will you find someone you can trust?

You seemed to hear what I could not say ... you helped me change some of my
negative beliefs into exciting options ... you coached me to coach myself.

Do you try to force yourself into a better life by reading self-help articles and books? Self-help strategies often appear simple and easy ... if the strategies are effective and if you can follow the strategies properly. Some popular self-help strategies can damage your relationships and lead to depression.

I came to you with a real bucket of worms. You helped me deal with
one worm at a time - even the long slimy twisted ones.
Miami, Florida

We can help you explore your life, define your goals and choose appropriate steps. We can help you create and achieve a worthwhile future, while therapy is more for healing past events. The following table is adapted from the book Therapist as Life Coach by Dr Patrick Williams:

Coaching Therapy
For healthy people who want better lives For patients with identifiable dysfunctions
Deals mostly with a person’s goals and blocks
and seeks to help people get what they want
Deals mostly with patients' past trauma,
and seeks to heal patients
Helps people learn or improve skills to build  satisfying relationships and to achieve goals Helps patients resolve old pain and suffering
Co-creative equal partnership (coaches help people explore their blocks and solve their problems) Doctor-patient relationship (therapists provide patients with diagnosis and interventions)
Emotions are perceived as natural and normal Emotions are perceived as unnatural and abnormal
Growth and progress are often rapid and enjoyable Growth and progress are often slow and painful
A coach helps people identify their goals and blocks, then walks with them to success, holding people accountable for reaching their goals. A therapist provides patients with professional expertise and guidelines to diagnose problems and provide patients with a path to healing.

What separates splendid and mediocre coaches? The answer is not technique - but sense of life.
Our sense-full coaching is naturally, structurally and intrinsically systemic, and we often
train and mentor helping professionals to apply systemic coaching in their work.

You provided space in which I could change. I didn't have to respect your theories, follow your directions or adapt to your methods. We did it together.

Step 2) We cannot help everybody

Get to know us through our articles, public talks and seminars. Let's connect our hearts and minds - we can meet online at our Facebook Community or we can use Skype to better know and understand each other. Why not check how well we can work together?

You walked with me into my worst nightmares, and in them you helped
 me find a marvelous treasure - my own self.
Sussex, UK

What you want is important. Perhaps one of us can be your professional coach, your devil's advocate, sounding board, trainer, provocateur, mentor and friend. We can help you choose goals, define plans, manage emotions, change habits, solve problems and get what you want.

Our approach to coaching and training is not available in other coaching or training programs,
and w
e avoid coaching or training people who are unlikely to benefit from our work.
We cannot help everybody ... please seek other assistance if:

* You are under 18
* You want free coaching
* You cannot cope with change
* You may harm  yourself or others
* You cannot cope with your daily tasks
* You want treatment for psychiatric disorders

Step 3) We cannot coach everybody. Are you coachable?

Are you willing to learn, responsible for your decisions and committed to your goals?
Here are some questions to help you assess your maturity and motivation ...

Are you mostly mature and responsible? YES - MAYBE - NO
Are you friendly? Do you have good friends? YES - MAYBE - NO
Are you reliable? Do you finish what you start? YES - MAYBE - NO
Are you honest? Do you generally avoid deception? YES - MAYBE - NO
Are you usually proactive  to solving life challenges? YES - MAYBE - NO
Have you suffered enough?  Do you want to change? YES - MAYBE - NO
Can  you  enjoy using new ways  and  new  behaviors? YES - MAYBE - NO
Are you financially prepared to invest in your own future? YES - MAYBE - NO
Are you  ready to  explore and change any  self-sabotage? YES - MAYBE - NO
Do you intend to improve your health, wealth  and happiness? YES - MAYBE - NO
Are you willing to stop complaining, blaming, guilt and shaming? YES - MAYBE - NO


*
For each YES - give yourself 3 points
 * For each MAYBE - only 1 point
 * Count your points ...

Over 24: You seem motivated and mature. Coaching you will be a pleasure.
Maybe read about our
coach training programs

Over 15: You seem ready to change. Online coaching should be good for you

Under 15: Do you really want to change? Contact us when you feel ready

We also offer online couple coaching for both intimate and business partners.

Step 4) We cannot please everybody. Choose your expert ...

You are a real person and we are good listeners. We have our preferred styles and we do not try to resolve issues in exactly the same way. Would you prefer a male coach or a female coach?

Some of our Expert Colleagues

Martyn Carruthers
Emotional Incest
Expert Modeling
Soulwork Trainer
Martyn Carruthers

Joy arises when we are true to our life purpose - true to the source of our love and passion - true to Soul. People who fulfill life purpose can share life goals, love and passion in healthy relationships.

Explore the influence of your relationships on your life to a deeper level than you are normally aware. A big part of your personality may be created to survive your early family. Once you find your true self, you are free to live a happy and creative life.


Self-Esteem
Emotional Maturity
Soulwork Trainer
Kosjenka Muk

You can peacefully change your life when you become aware of the origins of unpleasant emotions and beliefs. Your "Bingo" resources wait for you!
Marinka Spodniak



Child Development
Coaching Troubled Children

Naturopathy & Detoxification
Hypertension

I specialize in nutrition and gentle detoxification. I am a Certified Nutrition Specialist and Traditional Naturopath.
Richard Diehl


Systemic Sales

Build your passion for life and your passion for justice!

Management Coach
Stephen Werft

Be patient and generous with yourself and others, and assume that your life and everyone in it are in service to your evolution as a human being.
Kelly Lynn Ford


Projection

Inner child coaching can free you from trauma and help you open your doors to emotional maturity and lasting happiness.
Magda


Inner Child Coaching

Corporate Coaching

I work best with motivated people ... I enjoy giving my best to people who want the best.
Beverly Mann


Diabetes & Health Coach

The internet is full of confusing information about health. I help people transform vulnerability into empowerment.

Beverleigh Piepers

I offer you 30 years marketing experience and many ways to market and promote yourself and your business with integrity.

Stephen Feswick


Marketing & Promotion

I have extensive  experience in  international business, spiritual development and as a yoga teacher.

Leon Deith

 
Spiritual Coaching

Parenting & Business

I built a publishing business while single parenting a handicapped child. I also coach parents to succeed at work and at home.

Joanna Mądrzak

Step 5) Your Investment: Fees, Prices & Payments

Our online coaching helps people move from where they are now to where they want to be.
Do you want individual coaching, couple coaching, group coaching or mentorship?
See our Coaching Philosophy.

How many sessions do you need? This depends on how realistic you are, on how many issues
you want to resolve, your maturity, your relationships, your health, your benefits for staying stuck,
on how hard you work and on how much you want to chat about theories and philosophies.

We honor your freedom and we do not demand contracts. Most people ask for coaching, training or support for six months to two years. Most sessions are about 50 to 60 minutes.
 

Online & Telephone Sessions
Single sessions US $80 / session
Monthly packages US $300 / month (4 sessions/month - 3 months minimum)
We fully invest in coaching & training people to reach their goals.
We want you to be as invested as we are, so we ask you to pay
in advance.
If we phone you US $5 / hour (extra) in USA. In other countries, please ask
If we come to you Our rate plus expenses - 10 sessions minimum
Payments You can pay by PayPal or bank transfer
If you cancel a session within 24 hours: you pay $50 only.
If we miss a session without notifying you ... you get a bonus free session.
We offer discounts to residents of Eastern Europe, India and
less-developed countries, depending on our available time.

 If you are not satisfied, tell us within 7 days
and we will refund the cost of your last session *

Please copy, paste, complete and email to:
Name: Partnership Status: Country:
Age: Health: City / time zone:
Major goals:
Major problems:
Emotional blocks:
Relationship issues:
Additional Information:
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Specialty Coaching & Training Packages

End Self-Sabotage

Stop sabotaging yourself and damaging your life

Self-Esteem Package Change how you perceive and value yourself
Verbal Self-Defense Communicate and respond to difficult people

Life Reorientation

Explore where you are and where you want to be

Ongoing Mentorship

Monthly mentorship sessions for your ongoing development

Prepare for Partnership Clean up your beliefs, expectations and disappointments ...
stop copying poor role models and develop healthy habits
Relationship Clarity Dissolve relationship transferences and projections.
See yourself and others as real people with real dreams.
Emotional Maturity Change immature emotional reactions & behaviors
Financial Maturity Change how you perceive, value and use money
Return to Health For people recovering from serious illnesses
Blocks to Spiritual Progress Change your emotional, relationship or ancestral blocks
to your spiritual development
The Dark Side Explore and change the effects and consequences of curses, ghosts, black magic & witchcraft.

Step 6) Contact us at the Agreed Time

Do you want a few sessions to achieve simple goals, or longer support to monitor or resolve complex situations? It's your choice. For our online sessions or packages - pay in advance by PayPal or bank transfer, and we will expect your calls at the agreed times. (Skype and PayPal are free downloads.)

I found your coaching to be very spiritual, although you never used words like that. Thanks for sharing your authentic self and encouraging me to do the same.
Los Angeles

We are used to time zone differences and sometimes we provide crisis coaching at odd hours. If you use a Wi-Fi device or mobile phone, ensure that you have a full battery and good wireless reception.

  1. Check your audio equipment
  2. Choose a quiet and private place
  3. Use a headset to avoid a stiff neck
  4. Don't call us while you are driving!

Expect to gain many insights that you can apply in your life. Then, instead of trying to make yourself do things, those things can become part of what you naturally do.

I just wanted to end fights with my mother-in-law ... and over time you helped most of us.
I feel honored to be part of a real family rather than a group of grumpy people!
Singapore

If you want other people to change, develop your integrity and emotional maturity.
Your lasting happiness will be hard to ignore!

Step 7) Follow your Plan

After you clarify your goals, improve your relationships and sort out your emotional baggage ... what next? We can help you prepare for difficult conversations and complex transitions. When you have reached your goals, you can set new goals or we can continue on a more casual basis. You can contact us whenever you want to deal with a new issue or clarify some situation.

Thank you for being my coach and helping me figure out what is best for me
rather than trying to program me with some other agenda.
Philadelphia

Step 8) Send us Feedback

Your feedback is our continuing education. Please help us improve.
Tell us how your life has changed ... and please give us permission to post your comments.

We can support you as mentors, devil's advocates, sounding boards, provocateurs or friends.
We can help you define your goals, make decisions, change your habits and clarify your relationships.

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Soulwork systemic coaching in America & Hawaii

 

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Systemic Coaching & Coach Training
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Good Questions

Good Answers

Good Training

1. Where are you now? Assess your fixations, bonds and enmeshments Systems 1
2. What do you want?  Define your life goals ... and your blocks to success Systems 2
3. Do you have the resources?  Find your hidden resources by dreaming together Systems 3
4. Do your emotions block you?  End relationship disappointments and mentor damage Systems 4
5. Do your beliefs limit you? Change your limiting beliefs and end dependence Systems 5
6. Do you feel empty? Resolve identity loss to recover lost or hidden qualities Systems 6
7. Is your partner happy? Build healthy partnership (or separate peacefully) Systems 7
8. Are your children happy? Parents can learn to better resolve family problems Systems 8
9. Do you want team success? Team leaders and top teams can develop together Systems 9
10. Do you enjoy community? Community leaders can coach their communities Systems 10
**   Do you have unusual goals? Specialty coaching & training Specialty

Plagiarism is theft. Copyright © Martyn Carruthers 1996-2012 All rights reserved. Soulwork Systemic Coaching was primarily developed by Martyn Carruthers
to help people dissolve emotional blocks and improve relationships to achieve their goals. These concepts and strategies are for general knowledge only. Consult a physician about medical conditions and before changing medical treatment. Don't steal intellectual property ... get permission to post, publish or teach Martyn's work.