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Systemic Coach Home-Study Training

About Soulwork Training

You probably learn best if we support your interest and encourage your strengths, interests and your needs. We tailor the Soulwork training experience to you.

You probably learn best with a balance of formal instruction and coaching experience with a trained, experienced (and active) coach supervisor.

Excellence comes as you integrate experience with theory, during a series of guided lessons with guided exercises. Soulwork home-study training provides opportunities for you to experience and understand Soulwork techniques, while preparing you for the intensive Soulwork Coach training.

Soulwork Home Study exposes you to many types of problem and related changework modalities. You are expected to exercise with people from as many socioeconomic and educational backgrounds as possible; and you are expected to share your experiences with your study group and supervisor.

Basic Home-Study Advanced Home-Study

This has six core components:

  1. Professional Friendship
  2. Goalwork and Assessment
  3. Dissolving Objections
  4. Relationship Clarification
  5. Dissolving Conflicts
  6. Towards Integrity

This has six core components:

  1. Advanced Assessment
  2. Goal Hypnosis
  3. Dissolving Issues of Identity
  4. Dissolving Relationship Bonds
  5. Dissolving trauma and PTSD
  6. Mentorship

Professional Friendship

Basic skills for a Soulwork therapeutic coach include the following, although the most effective coaches set an example with how they live their own lives. This list describes "professional friendship" skills that you can use to support people, but they are not changework, interventions or treatment. Practicing the following skills can help you identify areas for therapeutic changework, and may provide people with short-term relief.

  1. accept (and perhaps enjoy) people's behavior
  2. set limits and observes boundaries
  3. validate thoughts, feelings, and actions
  4. provide support and encouragement
  5. provide self-disclosure without violating own privacy
  6. discuss habitual thoughts, beliefs and emotions
  7. discuss possible next steps and their consequences
  8. discuss how to evaluate thoughts and feelings
  9. discuss how accept reality as it is
  10. discuss how to tolerate stress and avoid distress
  11. discuss whatever the person wishes to discuss
  12. discuss the most serious problematic behaviors
  13. enlist the help of others (for example, to find medications, employment, etc.)
  14. discuss and demonstrate effective problem solving
  15. discuss how to find information, advice and practical suggestions
  16. discuss homework, e.g. record feelings, activities, or events, or do pleasant things
  17. discuss the events prior to problematic behaviors
  18. discuss the consequences of behaviors
  19. discuss the meaning of dreams and fantasies
  20. discuss connections between relationship problems and emotional problems
  21. discuss how to effectively ask for help
  22. discuss traumatic events such as abandonment or abuse
  23. discuss connections between current problems and childhood experiences

Goalwork and Assessment

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Reality Check

Ensure that a client with physical symptoms has consulted or will shortly consult a medical doctor. CYA - and your client's.

Dissolve Objections

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1. Where are you now? Assess relationship bonds and entanglements Systems 1
2. What are your life goals?  Identify your life goals ... and what blocks you Systems 2
3. How to reach your goals?  Use your conscious and unconscious resources Systems 3
4. What stops you?  Dissolve abuse and trauma to rebuild motivation Systems 4
5. What else stops you? Change your limiting beliefs to end dependence Systems 5
6. What else stops you? Resolve identity loss to recover qualities and skills Systems 6
7. What else stops you? Heal mentor damage and find quality mentorship Systems 7
8. What about your partnership? Build happy partnership (or separate peacefully) Systems 8
9. What about your children? We coach parents to resolve family problems Systems 9
10. What about your success? We coach team leaders and teams ... together Systems 10
11. What about your community? We coach community leaders and communities Systems 11
12. What about complex goals? Specialty coaching & training for unusual goals Specialty

Plagiarism is theft. Copyright © Martyn Carruthers 1996-2010 All rights reserved. Soulwork Systemic Coaching was primarily developed by Martyn Carruthers. We help people define and achieve goals, resolve emotional blocks and improve relationships. This information is for general knowledge only. Consult a physician about medical conditions and before changing any medical treatment. Don't steal ... ask Martyn for permission to post or publish his work.