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Do you want free personal individual or systemic coaching?
Individual coaching increases individual happiness and reduces
suffering. Systemic coaching increases the adaptability and survival
potential of partnerships, families and teams. We embed individual coaching
within our systemic coaching.
Why not use drugs (like most people)?
Our systemic coaching does not replace classical coaching.
Classical coaching is useful when people make decisions in controllable
environments with simple objectives. Systemic coaching is useful when
making relationship decisions, especially in complex environments
or with ambiguous objectives.
It's easier for health professionals and most patients to
use drugs rather than change relationships. Self-medication with alcohol or
nicotine, or prescription anti-depressants and stimulants are easier than
applying intelligence and analytical skills to complex relationships.
And drugs are much more profitable for most health professionals. There's
little money to be made from healthy people living healthy lives.
The long-term consequences of avoiding relationship
problems and the unpleasant side-effects of many drugs are unacceptable
to increasing numbers of people. Which do you choose?
What Price is Free?
Free does not mean that you gain at our loss. Free need not
require charity or dependence. Free means you can benefit from
quality coaching or systemic coach training without financial outlay.
Free Personal Coaching
We prefer to use demonstration subjects who are
not participants of our training programs.
We invite you to be a demonstration subject on our courses.
In our systemic coaching, we reject dogma and minimize theory. We
demonstrate everything - repeatedly - to provide an enjoyable, professional
education. We show people how to develop and improve their relationship
intelligence and professional coaching skills, at their own pace.
When we teach, we need demonstration subjects. We need people who are not
participants (they make our coaching look too easy) who are willing to
explore solutions for their relationship and emotional problems - in front of a
group. See our Systemic Coaching Philosophy
and Code of Conduct.
As a demonstration subject, you must want to take
responsibility for your life. Systemic coaching builds upon your
qualities and skills to deepen your emotional and relationship intelligence.
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Coaching is more than what we do, or believe, or
value. Coaching reflects who we are. Much more than technique, coaching
reflects our maturity. Coaching gives us space to express and display
our emotional intelligence - as we coach people to become their best.
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Free Couple Coaching / Marriage Counseling
Our couple coaching can help you and your partner simultaneously
and resourcefully resolve your conflicts, discuss your desires, solve
your challenges. We can coach you both to coach each other as you dissolve:
- nonverbal objections (e.g. saying "Yes"
while shaking your head "No")
- meaningless, confusing, negative, conflicting or vague
communication habits
- miscommunications (e.g. arguments about
responsibility, or meanings of actions)
- transference & transference loops (e.g. one responds
as if the other other were someone else)
We may offer you free couple coaching if you help us promote our
work, cover our expenses or participate as demonstration subjects at
our couple coach training.
Our Systemic Coaching training provide people with an
overview of basic systemic coaching skills. These workshops help people decide
if want to learn systemic coaching for their own pleasure, to heal their own
relationships or to coach other people to improve their relationships.
Introduction to Systemic Coaching workshops can be from a half-day
to three days. We may provide these workshops free of charge in towns or
countries in which we have no training presence.
Free Coaching & Training
We offer you effective coaching skills for evaluating
and changing relationships.
Do you want to learn systemic coaching for free? In your
home town? You can, if you help us organize systemic coach training. Read
Training Partners and then email us?
Do you want relationship coaching or systemic coach
training?
Online Coaching & Mentorship
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