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Are you Aging too Quickly?
Growing Young © Martyn Carruthers

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Are difficult relationships or painful emotions causing you to age?
Inside most old people are young people wondering how they got there.

Delay, Prevent and Reverse Aging

People are born with an energy for living that, unless continuously restored, fades with age. After about age 25, unless care is taken to replenish energy, many people stop growing up and start growing old. Yet aging is optional and controllable for most motivated adults, and degeneration may often be delayed, and, sometimes, put on hold or occasionally, even reversed.

The degeneration of aged tissues is far easier to prevent than to repair.
Degenerated body tissues are unlikely to be replaced, except perhaps by surgery.

Aging, Anxiety & Coaching

The deterioration of bodily functions that accompany old age is often considered a one-way street to suffering and death. Although many theories explain one or two aspects of aging; no single theory explains all aging phenomena. Yet many changes associated with old age are not from natural aging - but from diseases which occur more frequently with increased age. With appropriate care, most people can delay or prevent many of the problems of old age, and sometimes even reverse the aging process.

In a society that reveres youth, many people who age grieve the loss of their former younger selves, and deny their physical age. They may damage their credibility by wearing tight clothes more appropriate for teenagers, searching for young friends or lovers or even cosmetic surgery.

Aging anxiety often includes worrying about declining health, loss of friends, wrinkles, loss of hair, declining memory and depleted financial resources.

We help people prevent and delay the fragmentation and loss of mental resources
associated with aging, and increase motivation to be physically and mentally healthy.

Biological Aging

As time passes, cellular damage accumulates and impairs the function of a tissue. If the damage interferes with metabolism, whole organs may malfunction. A common example is adult-onset diabetes, which can often be controlled by diet and exercise.

"I thought that aging was something that would only happen to other people".

One theory of aging assumes that the life span of a cell or organism is genetically determined. Another theory of aging assumes that cell death is the result of the formation of enzymes that do not work efficiently. Another theory assumes that aging is due to the gradual accumulation of mutant cells that do not perform normally. (Natural mutation may be increased dramatically by toxins and carcinogens associated with modern lifestyles.)

Old Age & the Cardiovascular system

The heart changes with advancing age, gradually losing muscle, and reducing in performance. Heart disease and hypertension are the biggest causes of death after age 65.

  • The heart does not contract as rapidly in older people. In response to exercise, the heart can double or triple the amount of blood pumped, although the maximum output diminishes with age.
  • Arteriosclerosis (hardening of the arteries) is a progressive disorder and is present in most people by middle age, and increases markedly with age.
  • Blood vessels become less elastic with age, with a progressive thickening of the walls of blood vessels. These changes may increase blood pressure, increasing the work of the heart.

Old Age & Digestion

The overall digestion of sugars, proteins, vitamins, and minerals are similar to young people. Most nutritional deficiencies can be avoided if the diet includes all nutritional elements. Deficiencies are most likely to develop from poor eating habits, such as excessive sugars and refined flour. The loss of teeth in elderly people is often a result of long-term neglect.

Old Age & the Nervous System

Human behavior requires the brain to integrate information from the eye and ear, skin and internal organs. There is only a slight loss of brain cells in old age, however, brain cells are extremely sensitive to oxygen deficiency. Consequently, it is likely that loss of brain cells results from heart disease, which reduces oxygen delivery to the brain.

Old Age & Vision

From about age 50 there is an accelerated decline in the ability to discriminate detail, that most people compensate for with spectacles and increased illumination. Aging reduces the ability to focus the eyes for viewing near objects, so that distant objects can be seen more clearly than close objects. Sensitivity to darkness and glare is also greater in the old than in the young, and the incidence of eye disease, such as glaucoma and cataracts, increases with age.

Premature Aging

A rare childhood disease is characterized by many aspects of aging, such as baldness and thin skin. Children with this disease can die of old age - as teenagers. Premature aging is strongly associated with lifestyle - such as sunlight, smoking, alcohol and overeating.

Radiation & Temperature

People exposed to hard radiation die younger, although the only definite medical effect of continuous low-level irradiation throughout life is an increased risk of cancer - diseases such as leukemia increase with exposure with ionizing radiation from radioactive materials. Natural ionizing radiation is not a major contributor to aging.

Many organisms live longer at low temperatures. A rate-of-living theory holds that an organism's life span depends on critical substances that are used faster at higher temperatures. Some aging may occur as a result of heat damage to proteins, but this does not seems to be a strong factor.

Psychobiological Aging

The psychological features of aging are impaired short-term memory and longer reaction times. Some aged people become fearful and depressed, withdraw from social contact, or behave like children. Some of these aged people commit suicide or invite death with self-destructive, unhealthy lifestyle choices.

If you identify with an older person, you may often use gestures, facial expressions and habits of older people. These unconscious habits may make you appear older than your body age. If so, our identity coaching can give you a new lease of life.

Most elderly people can acquire new information and remember it as well as younger people. Age differences in learning increase with the difficulty of the material to be learned. It seems that people who age well maintain their mental alertness by continuing to learn and by contact with younger people.

Stress . Depression . Suicide . Anxiety

Parenthood and Aging

Human life, including old age and death, focuses on creating and raising children. Old age is linked to the reproductive process. Although the onset of old age is gradual, without specific systemic or environmental cause; an early manifestation of age is a decline in sexual interest. This can be horrifying to people for whom sex was a preoccupation.

The proportional contribution of an person to a family or community diminishes as the number of living children increases. This implies some optimum number of children that reflects the survival of those children to maturity. In developing countries, the number of living children seems to mostly reflect the food supply. Before medical advances, an optimum number of children would balance those who could be expected to die from disease. In modern industrial countries, the optimum number of children seems to reflect the beliefs and values of the parents.

Children and grandchildren provide a natural focus and purpose for older people. In many cultures, there is a special relationship between grandparents and grandchildren ... the children may gain indulgent second parents, while most grandparents enjoy caring for their children's children and the parents can relax for a while ... and maybe create another baby.

Advantages of Aging

In most traditional cultures, elders represent the knowledge of the community, and are the teachers of the young. In Western cultures, old people are often seen as liabilities, and inexperienced young adults learn subjects instead of the wisdom of experience. If younger adults feel that their freedom or mobility is limited by older relatives; then some form of old folks home may be perceived a logical next step.

Older people tend to have more time and patience, and more experience as family and community mentors. They have seen more of life; they have solved more problems and they are not easily shocked. They have seen birth and death, health and disease. They have a perspective of joy and suffering ... of life and death ... that younger people cannot easily imagine.

Online Coaching & Mentorship for Aging

Plagiarism is theft. Copyright © Martyn Carruthers 2003-2011 All rights reserved


 

 
 

 

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1. Where are you now in your life? Assess fixations, bonds and enmeshments Systems 1
2. What do you want?  Define life goals ... and blocks to success Systems 2
3. How can you reach your goals?  Use conscious and unconscious resources Systems 3
4. Do your emotions limit you?  Dissolve abuse, trauma and mentor damage Systems 4
5. Do your beliefs block you? Change limiting beliefs to end dependence Systems 5
6. Does inner emptiness limit you? Resolve identity loss to recover qualities and skills Systems 6
7. Do you want happy partnership? Build healthy partnership (or separate peacefully) Systems 7
8. Do you want healthy children? Coach parents to resolve family problems Systems 8
9. Do you want team success? Coach team leaders and top teams ... together Systems 9
10. Do you want community? Coach community leaders and communities Systems 10
**   Do you have unusual goals? Specialty coaching & training for unusual goals Specialty

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Plagiarism is theft. Copyright © Martyn Carruthers 1996-2011 All rights reserved. Soulwork Systemic Coaching was primarily developed by Martyn Carruthers
to help people dissolve emotional blocks, improve relationships and achieve goals. These concepts and strategies are for general knowledge only. Consult a physician about medical conditions and before changing medical treatment. Don't steal intellectual property ... ask for permission to post, publish or teach this work.