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Life Coaching & Systemic Solutions
� Jan Sikorski

Online Coaching & Mentorship

Are you entangled in difficult relationships or painful emotions? Do you suffer from old trauma? Do you suffer from your parents' drama or your partner's demands? Is it time to untangle your life?

Our Coach Training

Are you interested in learning how people change? We coach people to choose fulfilling lives and change whatever holds them back. Do you want to coach people to enjoy success? Our coaching and coach training can help you:

  1. Rebuild your motivation by dissolving trauma
  2. Resolve family problems quickly and efficiently
  3. Use quality couple, partnership and team skills
  4. End self-criticism & inner conflict to recover integrity
  5. Define goals, resolve objections and plan for success
  6. End your toxic habits and create mature relationships
  7. Evaluate relationship systems & clarify entanglements
  8. Dissolve mentor damage and find inspirational mentorship
  9. Recover and develop missing qualities, expertise and skills
  10. Develop yourself as a leader and work cooperatively in teams

We promise the best of our experience, time and attention!

What do you want?

Do you want success? Of course! Money? Goes without saying. Recognition? That would be nice. Good relationships? Certainly. Great partnership? Who doesn't? Happy children? Obviously!

Many people have similar abstract goals, and do not define them. Never. If you know exactly what you want, you are part of a minority. If you know exactly what you want and you have an effective plan for achieving your goals, you are rare. If you are not only motivated but inspired to fulfill your goals, and you are taking action now ... you could become a great systemic coach ...

Most people have vague ideas of what they want and often know better what they don't want. Most people have conflicts and objections about getting what they want. People who don't know their life goals often muddle around, limited by other people's expectations, fear and guilt. You can coach them.

Thoreau

Most men lead lives of quiet desperation

And many people who know what they want and how they can get it, stop anyway, sabotaging themselves with vague beliefs, missing motivation and unpleasant feelings.

Life Coaching and Meaning . Soul Mentorship

Systemic Life Coach Training

I took your training to sort out some issues, and to find what I really wanted. You helped put my goals into a "big picture" of my life ... I learned how to take action. Now I have great mentors ... I am effective and I am well paid for helping other people! Devon, England

You can learn how to coach people during interactive, dynamic team work. It is an effective way for you achieve your goals - by helping people achieve their dreams. Our work can focus you on your life situation and your vision for your future, using your past experience to help others.

We help people achieve their potential to gain focus, perspective and clarity on what is important to you - and what is important for others. Our coaching helps you meet challenges with purpose and direction.

You probably know the importance of your personal development. You know that having an �edge� is important, and that as a good life coach you can give others that edge. Our life coaching helps you improve your life, in the ways you want.

Systemic Life Coach Training

Our advanced coach training offers you much more than motivational rah-rah, catchy quotes and hypnotic language. We ensure you gain valuable insights into how you can help people improve their lives, so that you can offer personalized coaching in a range of specialties. You learn how to help people find their life purpose, define their goals, make effective plans and change limiting beliefs.

Many life coaches lack life experience. It's a sad fact that many coaches are young single adults, perhaps with a university degree and a correspondence course. Compare what our coaching and training offers you. Check some of our articles on the left side of this page. Our coach training encompasses all of life, from conception to death.

Life Coaching is (or should include) Relationship Coaching

Success, happiness and love are relationship issues! The consequences of ignoring systemic rules often include broken intimacy and strong unpleasant emotions. Positive thinking has hidden dangers!

  • As my success grew, I lost my best friends
  • I made a fortune and alienated my own children
  • My hard work and dedication lead directly to divorce
  • The more I developed, the less I appreciated my partner

Relationships often have unconscious, systemic rules about who can be happy, and for how long, and about who must suffer, and in what way. Our training includes relationship diagnosis and solutions for many relationship problems. Effective success coaching reflects effective relationship coaching.

Mother - Son Entanglements . Father - Daughter Entanglements

Success Coaching includes Emotional Coaching

Many people who want success claim to fear failure or fear success. Although life coaching is goal oriented and future positive, few coaches seem to check the relationship consequences of success.

Example: You want to get rid of Fear

  • You fear increased responsibility
  • You fear your own incompetence
  • You fear being seen as incompetent
  • You fear an inflow of too much money
  • You fear being unable to sustain success
  • You fear the unknown
  • You fear losing your friends
  • You fear alienating your family
  • You fear losing your possessions
  • You fear not knowing important information

Existential or chronic fear often indicates a deep entanglement with other people. Other potential consequences of success, and reasons to sabotage success, might be anger, sadness or guilt. For example, some signs of guilt are:

  • You create relationship problems
  • You alienate people who support you
  • You are depressed and you don't know why
  • You avoid balancing or keeping track of finances
  • You avoid work ... but you don't enjoy being lazy
  • You know what you have to do, yet you procrastinate
  • You ignore important problems ... and worry about them

Expect to feel guilt if you have hurt or cheated people, or if your success has somehow hurt people in your family (especially children, partner or parents). We offer lasting solutions for guilt and other unpleasant emotions that may seem to prevent or delay success.

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Plagiarism is theft. Copyright � Jan Sikorski 2002-2011


 

 
 

 

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We offer systemic coach training to helping professionals
and to people who want healthy relationships and happy families.

Good Questions

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Good Training

1. Where are you now in your life? Assess fixations, bonds and enmeshments Systems 1
2. What do you want?  Define life goals ... and blocks to success Systems 2
3. How can you reach your goals?  Use conscious and unconscious resources Systems 3
4. Do your emotions limit you?  Dissolve abuse, trauma and mentor damage Systems 4
5. Do your beliefs block you? Change limiting beliefs to end dependence Systems 5
6. Does inner emptiness limit you? Resolve identity loss to recover qualities and skills Systems 6
7. Do you want happy partnership? Build healthy partnership (or separate peacefully) Systems 7
8. Do you want healthy children? Coach parents to resolve family problems Systems 8
9. Do you want team success? Coach team leaders and top teams ... together Systems 9
10. Do you want community? Coach community leaders and communities Systems 10
**   Do you have unusual goals? Specialty coaching & training for unusual goals Specialty

What is Hawaiian Shamanism?

One root of our systemic magic Huna 1-6

Plagiarism is theft. Copyright � Martyn Carruthers 1996-2011 All rights reserved. Soulwork Systemic Coaching was primarily developed by Martyn Carruthers
to help people dissolve emotional blocks, improve relationships and achieve goals. These concepts and strategies are for general knowledge only. Consult a physician about medical conditions and before changing medical treatment. Don't steal intellectual property ... ask for permission to post, publish or teach this work.