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We offer coaching, seminars and
workshops on happiness,
resolving family
chaos and relationship intelligence.
Couple Coaching for Deep Happiness
As spiritual beings you can choose to share human experiences -
you can choose to be Soul Mates. You and your partner can remember who
you are and your integrity - together and apart. You and your partner can relate
as human beings - and in integrity - within a happy partnership.
You and your partner can powerfully and authentically, fulfill yourselves
while helping each other joyfully resolve blocks, conflicts and old
habits.
Our couple coaching is neither advice nor therapy.
We offer proactive and dynamic ways to make your lives make sense -
together. You are both already creative, whole and resourceful.
Our couple coaching provides choices and perspectives, and
coach you both to clarify your values and goals.
Sometimes, people seek soul mates to fulfill earlier
relationships - examples include people who were once twins, and the twin
died in the womb; and people who seek a missing or aborted sibling. (You need
not be told about these missing people - more likely you sense that someone
important is missing, and you seek that missing person).
Living as soul mates means living with responsibility
and integrity, not codependence. It means
resolving
entanglements and conflicts so that you and your
partner can fully participate in life together.
Premarital Coaching .
Abortions . Vanishing Twins
Couples can dramatically improve their relationships by
dealing with issues - not by hiding problems or ignoring conflicts. We coach partners to peacefully resolve
past, present and even future conflicts.
Spirituality & Codependence
An opposite of spirituality might be
codependence. Some consequences of codependence are:
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Consequences of Codependence |
- feel lethargic or low energy
- feel dejected and depressed
- feel hopeless, helpless and worthless
- feel withdrawn and isolated
- abuse or neglect your children
- searches for ways to escape responsibilities (see
maturity)
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- consider self-harm or suicide
- become aggressive and violent
- psychosomatic disease symptoms
- eating and sleeping disorders
- addictions to alcohol or drugs
- emotional, mental, or physical disease
symptoms (see psychosomatic)
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Partnership Wishes
Although each of you may know what you want, you may
be less aware of your partner's wishes. You may assume you
agree on certain points. Then, if some unstated wishes are not fulfilled, the
disappointed partner may react with anger, anxiety, depression or
withdrawal. (This is most likely when one partner believes
that he fulfilled his obligations but that the other did not.)
See Couple Contracts.
- Together explore both contracts, and find conflicts
- Resolve those conflicts and integrate your wishes
Soul Mates
Couple Coaching encourages and challenges partners to move
forward and realize their purpose in life, while creating a
warm, compassionate experience of committed partnership. We can coach you to
find your goals and identify your blocks, and assess your spiritual progress.
Our coaching
does not compete with nor replace religious guidance and direction that may be available from
organized religions.
We often coach couples to:
- Awaken to aware, conscious states
- Develop authentic relationships
- Accept and dissolve conflicts
- Expose and dissolve transferences
- Build spirituality in everyday life
- Consciously connect bodies, minds and spirits
- Love with integrity
We can coach you both to stay clear and active
towards creating and fulfilling a partnership
of your dreams ... one step at a time. Becoming soul mates is possible - yet
are rarely as easy as the more normal partnerships that surround you.
Spiritual
Development .
Spirituality for Families .
Is Soulwork "New
Age"?
How do you start?
To begin our couple coaching, you and your partner should
want to better understand each other, and:
- to expose and resolve conflicts
- to develop creativity and flexibility
- to expose and resolve transferences
- to personally commit to a clear relationship
Committed partners have everything to gain. It's up to you!
Do You Want Results?
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