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If you are being unduly influenced, you may first feel an unusual pleasant feeling or inappropriate rapport with a seller. Then you may feel guilty if you refuse an offer and you are more likely buy whatever that person is selling. However, after the warm, fuzzy sense of rapport wears off, you may feel manipulated, distrustful and abused.
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Sometimes, the road to hell seems to be paved with well-meaning therapists. |
If you notice a transference, you could educate your client about transferences, or you could find out to whom the transference is associated and dissolve it. We teach long-term dissolution of transference loops between partners in our Systems 8 (Couple Coach Training), between family members - Systems 9 (Family Coach Training) and between team members on Systems 10 (Team Coach Training).
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After reading your article on transferences, I was shocked to realize just how many of my clients see me as a mother figure. I realized that this is part of how I attract and keep clients. But this also means that many clients cling to me - if I let them use me as a substitute Mom - they can avoid growing up. Atlanta, USA |
Stressed people in difficult relationships often react to what is not said - to body language - and to the emotional reactions and intuited interpretations of this nonverbal communication. This can trigger unpleasant emotions which motivate retaliation, revenge and fights.
During a partnership, most couples (and business partners) seem to generate core transference loops. When a core loop is activated, both partners often lose resources simultaneously, which leads to unpleasant consequences. We help couples to dissolve these contextual doubled transferences.
Long-term, simultaneous dissolution of core transference loops is more complex. Two common examples are that a woman perceives her male partner more as a son, and/or the man perceives his wife as a substitute for his mother. The results are both commonplace and devastating to romantic intimacy, and are often a root cause of extra-marital affairs and divorce.
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Your couple coaching helped us evaluate our core values and goals, and the type of marriage we both wanted. You helped us transcend personal advantages and sexual attraction - you exposed us as real human beings with real dreams of happiness. |
We help couples befriend and manage their emotions and to build the skills, supportive beliefs and values needed for long-term partnership and parenthood. Couples can benefit from proven ways to dissolve not only their problematic symptoms but also the underlying causes of ...
If you experience our couple coaching, you may not look at couples the same way again. You will hear many stories about partners that you later find are untrue. You will see much well-intentioned hurt and the consequences of abuse, betrayal and ignorance. And you can develop your emotional maturity.
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Transferences are unconscious ties - and
unconscious lies. |
Sharing thoughts and feelings is
relationship first aid. We help people
make clear relationship decisions. We help people dissolve transferences and
we help couples dissolve transference loops and repair
shattered relationships.
Online Coaching to dissolve Transferences
Plagiarism is theft. Copyright © Martyn Carruthers 2001-2011 All rights reserved
Transferred References
* Heinrich Racker : "Transference and Counter-Transference", International
Universities Press, 2001, ISBN 0-8236-8323-0
* Harold Searles: Countertransference and related subjects; selected papers.,
New York, International Universities Press, 1979, ISBN 0823610853
* Margaret Little: Transference Neurosis and Transference Psychosis, Jason
Aronson; 1993, ISBN 1568210744
* Nathan Schwartz-Salant : "Transference and Countertransference", Chrion, 1984
(Reissued 1992), ISBN 0-9330-2963-2
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